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Today, I wondered how much our leaders, family, and friends have betrayed and disappointed us. That led me to the friendship verse we all know from Proverbs. Friendship and betrayal seem to be two sides of the same coin. My curiosity has led me to revisit these topics over the subsequent few sessions.
Sharpening Each Other: A Call to Intentional Friendship
Bible Verse:
Proverbs 27:17 (CSB) – “Iron sharpens iron, and one person sharpens another.”
Summary and Background:
The book of Proverbs contains timeless wisdom that transcends cultural and geographic boundaries. This particular verse vividly illustrates the transformative power of genuine friendship. As iron sharpens iron, so do friends sharpen and refine one another. The author, King Solomon, offers practical insights into the dynamics of relationships, emphasizing the mutual benefit derived from intentional companionship and accountability.
Questions:
How can we cultivate friendships that sharpen and refine us in today’s fast-paced world?
What role does vulnerability play in fostering deep, meaningful friendships?
How does this verse challenge us to be intentional in our relationships and invest in the well-being of others?
Other Bible Verses:
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (CSB) – “Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their efforts. For if either falls, his companion can lift him up; but pity the one who falls without another to lift him up.”
Proverbs 18:24 (CSB) – “One with many friends may be harmed, but there is a friend who stays closer than a brother.”
1 Thessalonians 5:11 (CSB) – “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up as you are already doing.”
Wisdom Thought:
“The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing… not healing, not curing… that is a friend who cares.” – Henri Nouwen
Kingdom Thought:
As we reflect on Proverbs 27:17, let us recognize the divine purpose in our relationships. Through genuine friendships, we participate in God’s redemptive work, sharpening and refining one another for His glory and advancing His Kingdom.
Sourced: Christian Standard Bible, researched and edited using Generative AI.

By Michael Stevens

About the Author – Michael Stevens Retired attorney. Military veteran. Bible trundler. Michael Stevens writes with the precision of a jurist and the conviction of a watchman. His work draws from decades of service, study, and Scripture — weaving together law, history, theology, and culture in a clear, Hemingway-style voice. Whether exploring the Gospel through the lens of classical philosophy, warning of soft totalitarianism, or unpacking the latest headlines with biblical discernment, he writes for readers who value truth over trends and legacy over likes. His devotionals and essays, often crafted for his son, aim to encourage, equip, and awaken. This is more than commentary. It’s a call to clarity in a noisy world.

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